Friday, March 6, 2009

What Can I Learn From Having Laryngitis?

Silence is Golden

A proverbial saying, often used in circumstances where it is thought that saying nothing is preferable to speaking.

As with many proverbs, the origin of this phrase is obscured by the mists of time. There are reports of versions of it dating back to Ancient Egypt. The first example of it in English is from the poet Thomas Carlyle, who translated the phrase from German in Sartor Resartus, 1831, in which a character expounds at length on the virtues of silence:

"Silence is the element in which great things fashion themselves together; that at length they may emerge, full-formed and majestic, into the daylight of Life, which they are thenceforth to rule. Not William the Silent only, but all the considerable men I have known, and the most undiplomatic and unstrategic of these, forbore to babble of what they were creating and projecting. Nay, in thy own mean perplexities, do thou thyself but hold thy tongue for one day: on the morrow, how much clearer are thy purposes and duties; what wreck and rubbish have those mute workmen within thee swept away, when intrusive noises were shut out! Speech is too often not, as the Frenchman defined it, the art of concealing Thought; but of quite stifling and suspending Thought, so that there is none to conceal. Speech too is great, but not the greatest. As the Swiss Inscription says: Sprecfien ist silbern, Schweigen ist golden (Speech is silvern, Silence is golden); or as I might rather express it: Speech is of Time, Silence is of Eternity."
That fuller version - 'speech is silver; silence is golden', is still sometimes used, although the shorter form is now more common.

The same thought is expressed in a 16th century proverb, now defunct - as many present-day feminists would prefer it:
"Silence is a woman's best garment."

Silence has in fact long been considered laudable in religious circles. The 14th century author Richard Rolle of Hampole, in The psalter; or psalms of David, 1340:

"Disciplyne of silence is goed."

Wyclif's Bible, 1382 also includes the thought - "Silence is maad in heuen". [made in Heaven]


Alexander's Way said...
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9 of Nine said...

Becky -

Who on earth is Alexander's Way??? (!) eep! (Be quiet, shhhh!)

(That's my alter ego!)

I'm running away, or at least preparing to. I deleted my post because it showed up under my alter ego's name, and I didn't mean for it to, and then the stupid name wouldn't go away anyway. What a screw up I am.

I was asking you if your post was intended to be telling me to shut up. LOL It was supposed to be funny. It didn't work, like most of my efforts. What a surprise!!!

Are you still my friend? Because outside of the walls of my home, very few people are.

B. Perky said...

Okay, Alexander confused me.

I am and always will be your friend.

If I had a voice I would have been on the phone. I couldn't think of anything to write that would help and not inflame so along with my spoken voice, I kept silent.

Be more gentle with yourself, don't let old hurts continue harming you.

9 of Nine said...

Be gentle with myself . . .

That's not a concept I understand or ever have. Are you gentle with yourself?

I don't understand that.

I want to let old hurts go, but when they keep getting ripped open, it does become difficult. I'm working on it, though. Let's call it a work in progress, ok? Years and years of pain takes a bit of time to release when it has been bottled up so long.